Forgiving another who has wronged you isn't always easy. We adult humans tend to hold grudges for too long. The catch is that when we do, we hurt ourselves more than the other person(s).
For a lesson on how to forgive and in the motives of why we should forgive (out of a deep love for others) I highly recommend this story about a Canadian couple who went to Africa on missionary work, was attacked, gang raped, and yet forgives their attackers, wanting nothing more than their salvation to come from it all. Thanks to Mark for the link.
The cross isn't the end. Sunday follows.